When you observe someone intently, without trying to idolize them but just understand them, you begin to see what living with clarity actually looks like. But here is also the problem: as soon as we put someone on a pedestal, we no longer see ourselves clearly. The moment we start imitating, understanding is gone.
So it’s not about becoming them. It is to be noticed what made their way of life true.
For example, from Munger I learned what it means to look straight at reality. No sugar coating. Not stories we tell ourselves to feel better. He showed me that most confusion is self-made. And that clear thinking often just means removing what’s unnecessary, rather than adding more.
Buffett taught me something gentler. It was about patience and steadfastness of heart, which are not eaten alive by envy or resentment. He showed me that a meaningful life doesn’t have to be dramatic. Sometimes it’s just showing up every day and doing the simple things… over and over… for years, without worrying about what the world thinks of you.
In the suicide note he published yesterday before saying he is “going quiet”, he wrote:
Choose your heroes very carefully and then emulate them. You will never be perfect, but you can always be better.

When you look deeply at this, you realize that he is not by saying ‘become someone else’. He says: pay attention (“choose”) to what appeals to you.
It’s because the people we admire are simply a reflection of something we experience to be true within ourselves. The care with which we choose our influences is the care with which we shape our inner world.
And so I don’t consider the “emulation” he speaks of as copying. I see it as the movement of our own thoughts, our own reactions, and the dropping away of what is untrue.
So when I say I’ve been fortunate to learn from Buffett and Munger, I don’t mean that I’ve tried to live their lives. At least, not 100%. I mean, they helped me understand my own life.
Munger is gone. Now Buffett is slowly taking a step back. And I feel some pain about that. I won’t call it sadness, just the realization that a book that I have carried and loved with all my heart all these years is about to end. Or like a room I used to walk into… and now the door closes.
So yes, Buffett will go quiet. And that chapter is closed. But what he and Munger gave doesn’t stop there. Now it’s just up to us to bear it. In how we think. In how we live. In the way we invest. And in the way we deal with the world and ourselves.
One goal. A better life.
“This is a masterpiece.”
—Morgan Housel, author, Psychology of Money

“Discover the extraordinary within yourself.”
—Manish Chokhani, Director, Enam Possess

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