If you and your partner live together without being married, you probably share many costs. One of you may even support the other financially. In such a scenario, you may wonder whether you can declare your girlfriend or boyfriend as a dependent on your tax return to take advantage of any tax benefits.
Claiming a dependent on your taxes can reduce your taxable income, but does your spouse count as a dependent? Here are the facts about how to claim a domestic partner on your tax return, according to the IRS-dependent rules.
What are the tax benefits if I claim my boyfriend or girlfriend as a dependent?
When you claim someone as a dependent, you are responsible for that person’s financial well-being, including providing food, clothing, housing, and other necessities. If you provide more than 50% of their financial support throughout the year, you may be eligible to claim them as your dependents. This can help you qualify for certain tax credits and deductions when you file your taxes, ultimately saving you money.
For example, if your spouse qualifies as your dependent, you may be able to claim the Credit for other dependentsa tax credit worth up to $500. If your friend had a lot of medical and dental expenses in the year for which you helped pay, you may also be able to deduct some of these expenses if you specify.
What are the requirements to claim my spouse as a dependent?
The IRS dependent rules are very specific regarding who qualifies as a dependent. Many couples are not covered by IRS rules and will have to file taxes as individuals if they are not already married. If you are unsure whether you can list your domestic partner on your tax return, TaxAct® can help you determine the individual’s eligibility during the filing process.
Under the IRS dependent rules, only qualifying children and relatives count as dependents. But don’t be confused by the term “relative.” A domestic partner may be considered a family member under IRS regulations if he or she meets specific qualifications.
To claim your boyfriend or girlfriend as a taxpayer, your situation must meet all of the following IRS requirements:
- You have to live together.
To qualify as a dependent, your partner must have lived with you for at least one calendar year. If you lived together for a shorter period of time, you cannot make your partner dependent. - Your spouse earned less than $5,200 in 2025.
Under IRS dependent rules, your boyfriend or girlfriend must have earned less than $5,200 for the 2025 tax year if you want to claim them as a dependent (the limit was $5,050 in 2024). If your spouse has earned more than the limit, he has essentially earned enough to prove to the IRS that he can take care of himself financially.Even if you live with your partner and pay most of the bills, if your partner earns more than the threshold in a year, you cannot list your boyfriend or girlfriend as a dependent on your tax return.
- You must provide more than 50% of their financial support.
You may be able to claim your spouse as a dependent on your taxes if you pay more than 50% of their basic living expenses. Living expenses can include housing, groceries, education, medical costs and more.
You will need to keep track of all these expenses to prove that you are providing more than 50% of your spouse’s financial support. Keep all receipts, documentation and bills so you have them available when you need them. Documentation is critical if you’re claiming any type of special tax deduction in case the IRS asks for proof.
When can I not claim my partner as a dependent?
Even if you and your spouse meet the above qualifications, the IRS dependent rules contain several caveats and further restrictions.
For example, you can’t claim your spouse as a dependent on your taxes if someone else can claim them as a dependent on their tax return. Each dependent can only be claimed by one taxpayer. So if your spouse’s parents, children, or ex-spouse claim them as a dependent, you cannot also claim them as a dependent.
Finally, in order to claim your boyfriend or girlfriend as a dependent, he or she must be a citizen, subject, or resident of the United States. Residents of Canada or Mexico may also be eligible.
What about the child and dependent care credit?
The Credit for care of children and dependents (CDCC) is a tax credit for people who pay child or dependent care expenses to care for a qualifying dependent. A common example is a parent paying childcare costs so someone can watch their child while the parent works.
Although they may sound similar, claiming your domestic partner on your tax return as a dependent is different from claiming the CDCC. You are not eligible for this credit unless your spouse is ill or unable to care for themselves, and you paid to receive care while you worked or looked for work.
How do I actually declare my partner on my taxes?
Now that you know whether or not you can claim your spouse as a dependent on your tax return, let’s take a look how to make the claim when filing your taxes. If you submit your tax return via Tax lawour tax preparation software asks you questions about your dependents and helps you claim any associated tax credits or deductions based on your answers. We’ll walk you through the process of claiming a dependent step by step to make it as simple as possible.
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