When my sons, Wallace (11) And Bruce (9)When we first got their iPads, I knew screen time would become a part of our world. Instead of constantly negotiating “How long” or dealing with meltdowns when time was up, we established one simple rule:
👉 They had to meditate before they could get their screen time.
Initially we started with just one minute. Over time we worked our way up to ten, but I quickly realized that ten minutes felt too long for them. They became restless, started giggling, or looked at the timer every few seconds.
So we settled five minutes of meditation for 45 minutes technical time.
It has been a game changer as it has helped them stay calmer while playing and, more importantly, eased the transition when it comes time to put their devices away.
Why meditation is so useful for children
Children today grow up surrounded by constant stimulation. Between school, sports, social media and screens, their minds rarely get a break. Mindfulness meditation for children provides a reset – a chance to pause, breathe and regulate their emotions.
And the research supports this:
🧠 Better focus and emotional control – Mindfulness training has been shown to improve attention, self-control and emotional regulation in children. (Children’s Health Council)
💛 Improved mental well-being – MIT researchers found that children who practiced mindfulness regularly showed this less stress and negative emotions such as fear and loneliness. (MIT News)
💪 Physical rest – Meditation can lower resting heart rate and blood pressure, allowing children’s bodies to relax, even during high-energy moments. (Cleveland Clinic)
In short, meditation is not just about sitting still, it is a skill that teaches focus, resilience and self-awareness, even at a young age.
How we make meditation work at home
Our family meditation routine is simple and realistic, no perfect poses or quiet rooms required.
Time: 5 minutes of meditation yields 45 minutes of screen time.
Coherence: We do it every time, not just ‘when we feel like it’.
Togetherness: I meditate with them. It’s more effective if they see me doing it too.
Keep it short: Five minutes is enough for their age. If it takes too long, they lose focus and the advantage disappears.
This rhythm has made meditation feel like one normal part of lifeno punishment or chore.
Two simple meditation techniques for children
You don’t need complicated apps or complicated scripts, just a quiet moment and some guidance.
1. Balloon Belly Breathing
A fun and simple way to introduce breath awareness.
Have your child place one hand on their stomach.
Say, “Imagine your stomach is a balloon. As you inhale, the balloon expands. As you exhale, it shrinks.”
Inhale for a count of 3-4, hold for a count of 1, and exhale for a count of 4-5.
Try it for 1 to 2 minutes.
It gives children something visual to focus on and helps them feel grounded in their bodies.
2. Box breathing (square breathing)
This technique is one of the easiest ways to help children calm their bodies and minds, especially during transitions or when emotions are running high. It is also used by athletes and even the military to reduce stress and improve focus.
This is how you learn it:
Have your child sit comfortably, cross-legged on the floor or on a cushion.
Ask them to imagine drawing a square in the air with their finger: one side for each part of the breath.
Guide them through the rhythm:
Inhale through the nose 4 counts (draw the first side of the square).
Delay the breath for 4 counts (draw the next side).
Exhale slowly through the mouth 4 counts (third side).
Delay again for 4 counts (fill in the square).
Repeat for 3-5 rounds and then rest with calm breathing.
You can make it fun by using a soft ringer or counting out loud.
This exercise teaches self-regulation, patience and awareness – all through the power of steady breathing.
Meditation tools that help create peace
Creating a cozy, dedicated space can make meditation more inviting for children (and adults).
Here are a few of our favorites Canadian-made meditation props that help set the tone:
These little touches make ‘meditation time’ something special and help create a peaceful environment that your children will look forward to returning to.
Why children’s meditation fits the Love My Mat philosophy
Bee Love my matwe believe that mindfulness should be accessible to everyone, of all ages.
Whether you’re teaching a child to pause before screen time or carving out five quiet minutes for yourself, it all starts with intention.
Our upcycled, hand-sewn props are designed to support these mindful moments and help families slow down, breathe deeper and connect to the present.
Final thoughts
Starting a meditation habit with children doesn’t have to be perfect or serious. It just has to be that way consistent.
Our five-minute practice may not look serene every day—sometimes there is fidgeting or giggling—but the impact is evident in how calmly they step away from their devices and how quickly they can self-regulate when things get overwhelming.
If you’re a parent looking for a practical way to bring more peace into your home, start small: just breathe for one minute before going to the screen. You might be surprised at how powerful those quiet moments become.
Here’s to thoughtful families, calmer transitions, and raising children who know that silence is power. 💛
— Shelley Gordon
Founder, Love my mat
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