Leading relationship -experts reveal the potential dangers of skipping daily intimacy – warning saving that it can lead to the fall of their relationship.
And they are not talking about sex.
Mariah Freya, expert in the field of sex education and co-founder of Bedurated, a platform for sex education, pays for couples to kiss more, especially when they think the relationship is missing a spark.
She said: ‘Kissing is the most undervalued relationship tool. Couples obsessed with date nights, whether they have ‘enough’ sex and communication techniques, but they sleep on the only thing that actually predicts whether they will stay happy together. ‘
Freya claims that couples who regularly surrender to the pillow of each other instead of setting up on cocks, usually have fewer conflicts, an increased desire for intimacy and a better emotional connection.
And it seems that research supports her because earlier studies have found a connection between kissing and relationship satisfaction.
A study from 2019 discovered how often a few kisses are a strong indicator for both sexual and relationship satisfaction – the more couples kisses, the happier they were.
Moreover, the researchers also discovered that regularly kissing can reduce anxiety and improve overall relationship quality.
Freya continued: ‘Something magical happens when we stop kissing in a mechanical way and really concentrate on it, even if it is a few seconds more.
‘That’s when your brain shifts from’ wish mode ‘to’ connecting mode ‘. Your partner becomes more literal for you. ‘
Researchers discovered that regular kisses can reduce anxiety and improve the overall relationship quality
But not all couples enjoy the simple act of love.
A 2011 survey showed that one in five married couples does not make up with their partner for a whole week, while two in five married people only lock for five seconds or fewer lips when they kiss.
Surprisingly, kisses between 18 and 24 years on average 11 times a week and five percent of people over 45 more than 31 kisses every week.
But although many busy schedules can blame as the reason why they do not kiss their partners, Brie Temple, CCO and head matchmaker at Tawkify warns that it can be a sign of ‘slightly deeper’
She told this website: ‘If a pillow fades, it is a subtle sign that something deep press is shifting. It is one of the first signs of emotional decoupling.
‘Without those soft moments, partners can feel like housemates instead of loved ones. It is not only an absence of physical touch, but an absence of shared emotional language that holds relationships close. ‘
Moreover, a lack of pillow between partners can also be a sign of decreasing physical intimacy, communication challenges and the worsening of self-respect.
A lack of pillow between partners can also be a sign of decreasing physical intimacy, communication challenges and deteriorating self-respect
Sunaree Ko, an expert in Love & Compatibility at Tarotcards told DailyMail.com: ‘A lack of pillow can go for intimacy over time.
“When physical affection fades, mating can feel emotionally disconnected, read each other’s intentions incorrectly or feel undervalued, especially during stressful periods.”
But although rare kisses in combination with issues such as distrust and other negative emotions indicate serious cracks in the relationship, it can just take some time -out for smoking, wonders for you and your partner.
According to Sofie Roos, a recognized sexologist and relationship therapist, kissing can give a cocktail of good hormones, including oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin in the brain that can help improve the emotional connection between a few.
She told DailyMail.com: ‘Oxytocin, also known as the love hormone that creates feelings of safety, calmness, attachment and affection – in other words: the feeling of being in love.
‘By having Oxytocin activated by your partner by kisses, you have higher opportunities to keep love and attraction alive!
‘Kissing also releases dopamine, called the feel good hormone, which makes us generally satisfied because it creates a euphoric feeling.
‘Dopamine is the same hormone that is released during an orgasm or exercise, but also when using drugs such as cocaine and heroin, and by getting the pillow of your partner, you get a natural high that not only feels good, but that can also keep the flame and the romantic interest in the person!
“Serotonin is the third hormone that is released in this hormone cocktail that dances in your body as you kiss your loved one.”
Roos continued: ‘Serotonin prevents us from feeling down and depressed, it helps us to sleep better, and it also makes us less impulsive and more stable – all factors make our quality of life better, and make us a better partner!
“This natural high is created when all sensitive cousins on our lips and tongue register the physical stimulation of the pillow and then sends the signals to the brain, which releases the hormones directly in our bloodstream.”
Moreover, Ko claims that Kissing your partner at certain times of the day can help maximize the benefits of the activity.
She said: ‘Some of the most successful couples credit a simple ritual of the first and at night as their secret to remain emotionally connected, no matter how busy life becomes.
‘It is a small act with a huge energetic impact, a daily confirmation of love, desire and loyalty. Even if words fail, a kiss can re -align the band of a few on both physical and spiritual level. ‘
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